Sonke sinamaphupho
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Wake wazibuza ukuthi kunjani ukuba nesifiso esivuthayo sokuba umuntu, ukuphakamisa impilo yakho futhi ufeze amaphupho akho? Mhlawumbe uke wahamba kulezi zicathulo futhi ube nozwelo kwabanye abafisa ukufeza amathemba abo, amaphupho kanye nezifiso zabo.
Nsuku zonke ngihlangana nabantu ezingxenyeni ezahlukene zomhlaba abalindele ukubonwa futhi babonwe othile onenhlanhla kunabo. Ngithanda ukuxoxa nawo wonke umuntu engihlangana naye ukuze ngizwe ukuthi ziyini izinhlelo zabo zekusasa ngezimpilo zabo. Abanye abantu abakaze banikezwe imvume yokuphupha noma ukukholelwa ukuthi amaphupho angenzeka, nokho ngiyakwazi ukukhuthaza nokunxenxa abantu ukuba babelane nami ngentshiseko yabo yokuphila.
Laba bantu bagqugquzelwe ukuthi bakutshele lokhu ngokuvulelekile ku- WITH ukuze bathole umuntu ofana nawe ongakholelwa kuye, baze baqale ukukholelwa kuyena.
Ngenkathi nginguye impela lo muntu, kuyo yonke leyo minyaka edlule, ngaba nenhlanhla yokuqinisekisa uMama wami ukuthi angivumele ngibambe iqhaza ohlelweni lokushintshiselana ngesikole eJalimane. Kwadingeka ngenze okuningi ukukholisa ngoba kakade sase sinezingane ezinhlanu ezihlala endlini enethezekile enamagumbi amathathu okulala. Lokho okuhlangenwe nakho kwashintsha impilo yami, amamodeli ami engqondo kanye nemibono yami yomhlaba. Ngafika ekhaya sengingumuntu oshintshile ongaphupha kakhulu. Kungalesi sizathu ngiyakukhuthaza, njengoMxhasi noma Umeluleki, ukuba ucabangele ngemva kwesikhathi esithile, ukuvumela lo muntu ithuba elifanayo engalithola kuyo yonke leyo minyaka edlule, ukuba anivakashele ezweni lakini.
Ngikholelwa ukuthi sonke sinesifiso esijulile sangaphakathi sokusiza abanye, kodwa ngokuvamile asinasiqiniseko sokuthi kanjani. Ngakho-ke leli khasi elilapha likhuluma ngokukhuthazwa kwabantu abasha ukuthi bafinyelele amaphupho abo, babe ngabangcono kakhulu futhi bakholelwe ukuthi konke kungenzeka. Ngosizo lwakho bangafundiswa noma baxhaswe noma bobabili.
Ukuze uthole ulwazi olwengeziwe, sicela ucaphune imininingwane yomuntu ongathanda ukuxhunyaniswa naye noma ushiye kungenalutho futhi sizokuthumela imininingwane mayelana nohlelo.
Sibheke ngabomvu ukuthi uhambe lolu hambo lwethemba lesikhathi esizayo nesikhuthazo.