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Embracing Your Unique Song: A Journey of Self-Discovery




In my journey of self-discovery and growth

I've come to appreciate the profound importance of understanding and embracing our true selves. This journey has not only transformed my life but has also empowered me to guide others on their paths of self-realization. My profound belief in the innate gifts and talents we all possess has been a driving force behind my work as a Foresight Practitioner and Strengths Coach working with continuous improvement in authentic human & social systems.


From my early days, I've been inspired by my mother's wisdom in human flourishing, reminding me that each of us is endowed with unique abilities waiting to be uncovered. The revelation of the 'Strengths Assessment' has been pivotal in my quest to help individuals harness their inherent strengths effectively and I am deeply committed to sharing this knowledge far and wide because I believe that true happiness stems from embracing our authentic selves.


Why is this so crucial?


When we align with our true essence, we operate from a place of authenticity that intrinsically motivates and energises us and positively impacts those around us. It requires less effort than trying to conform to someone else's expectations because we are positively motivated and engaged. Embracing the mantra "don't try be me, I'm already taken" has led me to a profound realization: I am enough just as I am, and my journey is about becoming the best version of myself for my own growth and for the benefit of others. This is what I seek for all of us.


Though my journey has had its challenges, I find solace in stories that resonate with the essence of self-discovery and authenticity. One such tale, shared by Alan Cohen in "Wisdom Of The Heart," underscores the importance of reconnecting with our roots, values, and unique identity.

In this story, passed down through generations in the Namibian Himba Tribe, the community celebrates each individual's journey from birth to death by singing their unique song back to them at significant life events to remind them of who they are at their core.


This beautiful tradition serves as a reminder to honor our authenticity and to see others for who they truly are, free from judgment and negative perceptions.

Your soul has its own melody, a unique expression of your talents, passions, and purpose. Even in the face of challenges, setbacks, or distractions, your inner song remains steadfast, guiding you towards fulfillment and growth. Yet, it's essential to stay true to your own tune amidst the noise of the world. Harmonizing with others is beautiful, but never at the expense of your own happiness.


We serve others best by reminding them of their own song, supporting them in their journey of self-discovery and authenticity. Authentic self-expression brings healing and peace, allowing us to embrace our true essence and radiate our light into the world.


As we journey through life, let us remember our unique song and share its beauty with the world, for it is in embracing our authenticity that we find true joy and fulfillment.


Sam McDonald has been married for 30 yeas and has four children. They are a Strength-based family, using the CliftonStrengths® to enhance marriage & family life. Their home is in Hampton Court, UK and the FalseBay Coast, Cape, SA. She is a Futurist and Chief Visionary Officer for WITH-HUMANITY, a change-maker with a dream to disrupt our current meritocracy by "Unlocking the IntrinsicIdentity © of all Individuals in service of greater human engagement" creating an all inclusive Universal Value Metric and new social System.


She is a Normative Visionary, Systems Thinker, Disruptor, Change-Maker & Activist. Graduating Cum Laude with an MPhil in Futures Studies from the University of Stellenbosch, after failing matric, she believes matching one's intrinsic wiring to how we learn yields exponential results, leap-frogging our current education system. She influences thinking in order to create futures-led enquiry & change towards a future we all want to be part of - linking strategic leadership and management with futures thinking. Her use of Interdependent Rules of Engagement© and the CliftonStrength® Assessment, as well as various Foresight Methodologies, are tools of choice to influence mindset change, and help people understand each other's unique world views, which are coloured by what she terms our Strengths Language.


She moved to South Africa in 1983 from Nottingham, UK and has lived in both dysfunction and functional environments. These she views as her "cross to bear is your gift to share" - serving as a bridge in understanding how to create function out of chaos.


She and her fellow Coaches, work with motivated clients using the CliftonStrength® Assessment and Interdependent Rules of Engagement©as power tools for:


  • Strength Based Interviewing & Recruitment

  • Assisting motivated individuals to fall in love with their careers and find the work they were born to do.

  • Working with high achievers to discover their value and purpose

  • Working with Start-ups to gain momentum, motivation & self-awareness of the Entrepreneur

  • Assisting Students to gain a greater self-awareness, expediting their career path, building confidence and self-esteem.

  • Working with individuals to re-engage in their work environments & leveraging their strengths

  • Working with marriage relationships to help you love again and understand the toxicity, reduce negative experiences, create understanding and, in turn, assist with long-term strategies for lasting transformation

  • Finding your true Purpose, Passion and Value in Life

  • Falling in love with your life and work again

  • She teaches the 'Interdependent Rules of Engagement© & Vulnerability' to focus on living 'Interdependence' as the key to healthier environments - choosing this as 'rules of engagement' over 'Dependence', 'Co-Dependence' & 'Independence'.


Follow the link if you would like to take the Strengths Assessment and here to read more about how to discover who you are at your core.


If you would like to help WITH-Humanity grow the Strengths Revolution, you are encouraged to join us by subscribing to WITH's Self-Organised Mastermind Learning Group where we bring understanding to your intrinsic wiring, our misunderstandings & triggers, and explain what drives and motivates us to optimise ourselves. Pricing starts from just £1.49 per month (depending on your financial status) and includes access to the Strength Assessment and a group of like-minded individuals who share Strengths in common with you.


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